Christian Marraige Counseling in Colorado Springs, CO

There is hope, learn how you can transform your marriage.

Your marriage doesn’t look or feel the way you wish it did.

You feel disconnected from your spouse, struggling to communicate, and feeling unheard or misunderstood. This strain is affecting both of you—whether at home, at work, or in your parenting. Despite your best efforts, it seems like you're stuck in a cycle, and you're starting to realize that this is something you can't fix on your own.

It’s a painful place to be, and you’re not alone. Sometimes, the challenges in marriage require outside help to break through. Christian marriage counseling offers a path to restore your connection, improve communication, and rebuild the understanding and validation you both long for. I can help you find healing and renewal for your relationship.

  • When these emotions take root in a marriage, they can feel like a slow, silent erosion of the connection that once brought you together. It’s as though you’re speaking in a room full of echoes, waiting for your partner to truly hear you, to acknowledge your pain, or simply to notice the space between you that’s growing wider by the day. This emotional distance can breed frustration, defensiveness, and a sense of isolation, leaving both partners feeling as though they’re walking side by side but on different continents. The longer this goes unaddressed, the more it becomes a pattern, creating a cycle of disconnection that can be hard to break. The good news is that marriage doesn’t have to be an emotional game of hide-and-seek, read more here.

  • Whether it's unresolved conflicts, unmet needs, or a sense of emotional distance, deep down you know things can't stay this way.

    God created marriage to be a source of joy, partnership, and growth, but right now, it's hard to see a way forward.

    It's time to take a step of faith, to invest in healing, and to rebuild the bond that was meant to be a reflection of His love. Let’s work together to rediscover the peace, intimacy, and joy that can transform your relationship, with God's guidance at the center.

  • Marriage can be challenging, and at times, it can feel like you're drifting apart or trapped in a cycle of conflict and misunderstanding. Whether it's communication issues, unresolved hurt, or a loss of intimacy, you may be wondering how to rebuild your relationship. But you don’t have to face this struggle alone. Through Christian marriage counseling, I can help you and your spouse reconnect, strengthen your bond, and rediscover the love and purpose God intended for your marriage. I will walk alongside you as you take the next step toward healing and restoration.

Hi! I’m Tabitha, and I can help.

I believe your marriage deserves relief from pain and hope for healing.

I provide Christian marriage counseling that focuses on helping couples reconnect and truly understand each other. Through our work together, couples gain deeper insights into their communication patterns, experience renewed hope, and leave with a clearer path forward for strengthening their relationship. With your Christian faith at the foundation, I guide you toward healing and growth, so you can build a stronger, more loving partnership.

How I can help

I specialize in therapy for lasting change.

  • Bonding via emotional connection is vital to any marriage. Emotional distancing is often a reaction intended to protect the heart of the one doing the distancing. However, it is maladaptive, often leaving the other partner feeling alone and abandoned. Reconnecting is a key component in marriage therapy.

  • Learn how to effectively state your needs, wants, and desires without your spouse feeling attacked. This negates the need for defensiveness and helps get you “unstuck” in your current interaction cycle. You will learn how to have different kinds of conversations, “heart talk” vs. “work talk.”

  • Attachment styles can often greatly influence how individuals interact in their marriages. Understanding this influence can shed light on why you and your spouse react the way that you do. This can be very impactful to understand what is going on in each other’s inner world.

How to begin the therapy process

Life is stressful enough right now. Let me make this part as easy as possible.

Click this link to choose a day and time for a free, confidential consultation where I can answer any questions you may have about working with me.

Transform your marrriage.

Together, we’ll develop the tools you need to love each other well.